It’s been a long, long time coming.  I am happy now.  So truly happy.  It feels like a dream.  I am blessed in so many ways.  I am embarking on a new dream career.  I’ve lost 17.5 lbs on Jenny Craig.  I have wonderful friends and family.  I met an incredible man on a similar path as me.  It’s amazing how things all work out.

It took tenacity to get to where I am, a lot of hard work and unflinching focus.  And I know it will take the same tenacity to keep the dream moving forward but now it’s time to bask in the glow a bit. Here’s where I’m smiling serenely basking in said glow.

Happiness is something you need to maintain.  It starts with an optimistic outlook and continues with perseverance in spite of the odds against you.  You may get derailed by poisonous people but remember that’s a minor blip, dust yourself off and get back on track.

Happiness is what you maintain in spite of adversity.  When you get into adversity, it’s easy to lose sight and stop counting your blessings.  For instance, I got into a car accident yesterday.  No one was hurt.  But it was my fault and my insurance is going to go up and I have a deductible.  It could have totally killed my happiness but I didn’t let it.  I let go and let God.  And the blessings continue to flow.

I’m an adherent to The Four Agreements (Don Miguel Ruiz) and I’ve read every book in the series.  And I’m a believer in their power to transform your life into a dream.  Everything is a test.  But so are blessings.  They are a test to see what you do with them, to see how you treat and appreciate them.  I’d like to move into mastery but right now I’m still battling it out in the warrior phase.

Not taking anything personally

Not making any assumptions

Being impeccable

And doing my best.



An Open Invitation to Art in the Park

In 2009, I was lucky enough to attend an art workshop in Sunset Park, Brooklyn, by the brilliant artist/photographer/author Sabrina Ward Harrison.  If you haven’t heard of her or attended one of her memorable events, find out more on her website: sabrinawardharrison.com.  This event was the spark for my own small brain child, Art in the Park, which I have been hosting for almost a year now with the help of my right-hand, p-ART-ner in crime, Diana Fraser.

We journey to some of the best, most picturesque parks in Central New Jersey.  (Suggestions for new venues are always welcome.)  And we indulge in all things creative under the trees.  We free-write, do arts & crafts, create collective art work, share our talents, take photographs, eat snacks and have a blast.

I’d like to extend a warm welcome and invitation for my blog readers to attend.  Keep reading for all the details.

Art in the Park Revival Day is Saturday, May 28 · 10:30am – 1:00pm

This is a free event! Art in the Park is a creativity group held in select outdoor venues in NJ. It runs from 10:30am – 1:00pm and includes guided creativity sessions. The goal of the group is to promote creativity in its many forms while communing with nature in our beautiful local parks.

Things you might need:
Bring a blanket, a snack, a mixed cd of your favorite songs and your art supplies (paints, paper, charcoals, etc.)… AND bring something meaningful to you, a drawing, a photograph, a beloved journal because Art in the Park is getting started again.

If you aren’t familiar with the day, we have ice-breakers first thing in the morning, followed by a workshop facilitated by yours truly (bring your journal and something meaningful, SEE BELOW FOR WORKSHOP Description), and then an arts and crafts workshop by Diana (expect the unexpected).

That will wrap up our day – and the rest will be yours to mix and mingle with your fellow Art in the Parkers, have some lunch in the sun or explore the gorgeous woods and Surprise Lake in the Watchung Reservation. Cameras are welcome. We love to see pictures from our events. But if you are taking pictures of a person, please get their okay first.  Also, our event is PG so children are welcome.  We will be very close to a great playground too.

Find us at the Watchung Reservation and Directions:
Watchung Reservation in Union County is a 2,000-acre wooded tract where animal and plant life are protected. Highlights of the park include Surprise Lake, the Deserted Village of Feltvile/Glenside Park, the Trailside Nature and Science Center, Seeley’s Pond and the Watchung Stables. Take Route 22 to New Providence Road in Mountainside. The entrance to the Reservation is marked and on the right about a mile and half up from Rt. 22. At the circle, take the second right which will lead you to a picnic area. Look for the snack bar. We will be set up directly across from the snack bar under the trees.



We always devote some time in the beginning for quality introductions to develop a strong group rapport for the day. We will have intros and icebreaker questions. We will go over some group rules and goals. Then, we will have a stretch and some deep breathing to relax and prepare for some creating.

Something old, Something new, Something you

I will be bringing some amazing old photographs from the turn of the last century. I don’t know how I acquired them. I just have a bunch. We will take these old pictures and incorporate them into a work of art that also includes something new from the park (a blade of grass, a leaf, or a flower) and something you brought that has meaning to you. You don’t want to miss this workshop.

Arts & Crafts

This is the session where we get hands-on and craftsy. Diana will lead this session by introducing the group to a new craft technique. After her demonstration, the group is free to experiment with the arts and crafts technique at this time.

Art in the Park

Reading the rules and goals of the day

Paints and cardstock and ribbons Oh MY

Group Paint

30 Reasons to Love BEING SINGLE

1.No accommodating.
2.No appeasing.
3.No compromising.
4.You get to watch whatever you want, the remote control is yours again.
5.You get to do whatever you want, you call the shots.
6.The only one who criticizes you is you, don’t do it.
7.You only worry about your own dinner.
8.You pick what’s for dinner.
9.You get to raise your dogs how you see fit.
10.You get to enjoy your own company.
11.Laugh at your own jokes.
12.Solitude is a peaceful, beautiful time for yourself.
13.Spoil yourself often.
14.You have to learn how to love yourself.
15.Love yourself hard.
16.Take excellent care of yourself.
17.The toilet seat miraculously stays down.
18.You can lounge around in sweatpants and go without make-up.
19.Your true friends will be there.
20.You call on the real people who love you.
21.You can cuddle and kiss your puppies.
22.Dogs are woman’s best friends too.
23.Go out with your girlfriends.
24.Get a pedicure.
25.Play angry chick music all day long.
26.Work out to gangsta rap on your iPod.
27.Long talks on the phone with people you love, no cutting it short.
28.You get to be messy.
29.Do the laundry when you feel like it.
30.You are your own cheerleader, hold your own hand, praise your successes and focus on Team #1: YOU.
“Out of the chains that bind – never fall in love again.” –Dionne Warwick